Dating and Friends

I’m going to put this right out there: Some people suck at having friends and dating at the same time. Have you ever had a friend who just completely disappeared after meeting Mr./Ms. Right(Now)?  Maybe you’ve been that friend.  Maybe you currently are that friend.  Stop that asshattery right this instant. I get it, and I’m happy for ...

“I just can’t figure out how he feels about me!”

A few days ago, I overheard one girl on my college campus talking to another. “I just can’t figure out how he feels about me.  When we’re together, it’s great, but then he doesn’t text back and he doesn’t make plans.  But I like him so much!” It was really difficult for me not to go over ...

Ask Me Anything

This isn't part of a link-up or a meme, but rather something I'm hoping to make a semi-regular (read: every few months) feature.   I'm looking for your questions about: Toys and lubes. Personal health care (testing, best lube/lotion/potion for ___, bath & beauty). Porn, including porn and relationships. Relationships and dating. Mental health and sexuality.   I don't want to focus this ...

What I’ve Learned So Far

Hi there long-neglected follower darlings! I spent Wednesday night through Saturday night in Baltimore with the manfriend, his sister, and her boyfriend.  It was probably the most insane vacation I've ever taken, even considering the fact that we went to bed during the PM hours almost every night.  We're super cool like that.  But seriously, I ...

Living and Loving Arrangements

Darlings, the last week has been absolutely 100% different from what I anticipated. Until last Thursday, I was planning to move into my apartment in one of the nice, safe, but boring neighborhoods of Pittsburgh.  I would be moving at the end of the month, living with two guys I didn't know (but who seemed very ...