Dating and Friends

I’m going to put this right out there: Some people suck at having friends and dating at the same time. Have you ever had a friend who just completely disappeared after meeting Mr./Ms. Right(Now)?  Maybe you’ve been that friend.  Maybe you currently are that friend.  Stop that asshattery right this instant. I get it, and I’m happy for you.  You’ve met someone that you just can’t stand to be without.  Hell, I have someone in my life that I can’t imagine being apart from.  It’s intoxicating.  New love is amazing, and you want to just cocoon with your lovenugget until you’re both old, ...

“I just can’t figure out how he feels about me!”

A few days ago, I overheard one girl on my college campus talking to another. “I just can’t figure out how he feels about me.  When we’re together, it’s great, but then he doesn’t text back and he doesn’t make plans.  But I like him so much!” It was really difficult for me not to go over and tell her what I’m about to tell you: It doesn’t fucking matter. Think about it this way.  When you make a new friend, you hit it off immediately.  Often, you exchange numbers, and you might go through an awkward phase where you’re not sure how ...

Ask Me Anything

This isn't part of a link-up or a meme, but rather something I'm hoping to make a semi-regular (read: every few months) feature.   I'm looking for your questions about: Toys and lubes. Personal health care (testing, best lube/lotion/potion for ___, bath & beauty). Porn, including porn and relationships. Relationships and dating. Mental health and sexuality.   I don't want to focus this on me.  I want this to be about you.  What do you want to know?  If you raise a big enough question, or if the answer would be too long, I'll likely turn it into a feature-length post.  And if no one asks questions, this is going to ...

What I’ve Learned So Far

Hi there long-neglected follower darlings! I spent Wednesday night through Saturday night in Baltimore with the manfriend, his sister, and her boyfriend.  It was probably the most insane vacation I've ever taken, even considering the fact that we went to bed during the PM hours almost every night.  We're super cool like that.  But seriously, I think I drank my weight in beer, ate my weight in brick oven pizza, and walked about 30 miles.  I'm going to write a full post - including some photos - later this week! It's been about a week since we began our official move-in, so ...

Living and Loving Arrangements

Darlings, the last week has been absolutely 100% different from what I anticipated. Until last Thursday, I was planning to move into my apartment in one of the nice, safe, but boring neighborhoods of Pittsburgh.  I would be moving at the end of the month, living with two guys I didn't know (but who seemed very sweet from our brief meeting!) and I would hope to save enough money that in case something happened after I graduated and I lost my job at Adam & Eve, I could still pay my bills.  And honestly, it was giving me a stomach ulcer. Obviously, ...