OkCupid University: Etiquette 0500

Welcome to another installment of OkCupid University!  In case you missed it, you can find my intro to OkC post here. Many of the most common question I get asked about online dating revolve around etiquette.  A lot of myths still abound about male/female interaction, and since the majority of my friends are heterosexual, that's what ...

My Thoughts on Dove’s “Real Beauty” Sketch Video

Have you seen Dove's latest Campaign for Real Beauty video?  If not, go take a look. First of all, I know there are 1,000,001 posts out there already about Dove's Real Beauty campaign, both positive and negative.  After watching their most recent video, I had a thought that I haven't seen addressed yet. The entire thing hinges on ...

Ask Me Anything

This isn't part of a link-up or a meme, but rather something I'm hoping to make a semi-regular (read: every few months) feature.   I'm looking for your questions about: Toys and lubes. Personal health care (testing, best lube/lotion/potion for ___, bath & beauty). Porn, including porn and relationships. Relationships and dating. Mental health and sexuality.   I don't want to focus this ...