G-Spotting, Like an O.G.

May 6, 2013 · By · Leave a Comment

Before CatalystCon, I was lamenting to Sandra of SheVibe that I could not manage to have a G-spot orgasm. I love using my Vixen Creations Mustang in tandem with some of my favorite clitoral vibes, but pure G-spot satisfaction had eluded me.  I couldn’t do it during sex or alone, and I’ve been reviewing toys for almost a year and a half now.

Enter, Marc Dorcel.  I received a So Silicone Dildo and an Expert G Vibrator, both pink and both 100% silicone.  Piph may not be a pink fan, but I have to say, I love the hue Dorcel chose for these toys.  It’s the kind of pink I’d want my hair to be if I thought I could pull it off. Both toys are absolutely 100% silicone, because as I am wont to do, I lit them on fire with a Bic, with stunning results: Ash, but no change to the materials otherwise. A++ for quality!  I do find the silicone a bit more matte than I like, but not nearly as grabby as WeVibe’s silicone. For either toy, water-based lube is a must (I used Good Clean Love and Sliquid Sassy).

Before we go any further, we need to have a quick discussion about dildos.  I know a lot of toy novices look at dildos and wonder, “WHY?” We need to get one thing straight right now: It doesn’t have to vibrate to feel awesome. Your vagina (or anus) has tons of nerve endings, and vibration is only one of many sensations that can feel pleasurable.  Some people don’t enjoy internal vibration because it’s either too much for them or it just doesn’t do the trick.  A well constructed, and especially a nicely textured, dildo can be fantastic addition to your toy box.

Now that that’s out of the way, let’s get more specific.  I absolutely love the design of the Marc Dorcel So Dildo at first glance.  It’s beautiful, and the dual-ended design makes it easy to hold onto from either end.  Unfortunately, it’s also very flexible, which makes it difficult to really pinpoint the G-spot as well as I would like to.  I tried using the smaller end to stroke my G-spot, but the mega-flexible neck made it impossible to get the pressure I needed. The larger end is just too much for me.

If I were to improve the So Dildo, I would suggest making it dual-density.  I realize that this would raise the price but I think it would be worth it, especially if the beautiful shape were retained.  By making the core of the dildo more firm, it would be much easier to actually stroke the G-spot and provide the necessary pressure.

On the other hand, the Expert G Vibrator was a home run. It is multi-speed, complete with patterns, but like most of my toys, I actually only used it on the first and second constant-vibe settings. What can I say? My vagina is a lightweight. The Expert G’s head is just bulbous enough to be perfect for the G-spot, but not so large that it’s uncomfortable.  The egg-on-a-stick design is very popular for G-spot toys, but this one is executed particularly well because the shaft is not much thinner than the bulbed head. So instead of getting great G-spot stimulation but feeling awkwardly empty otherwise, the Expert G gives your vaginal walls something to clench against during orgasm. And if my usage is any indication, you will orgasm. I did, even without clitoral stimulation, and it was phenomenal.

Thanks so much, SheVibe!

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Vibratex Mystic Wand

March 24, 2013 · By · 2 Comments

Because 2013 has really taken off for me, you’re going to be seeing a LOT more toy reviews! I’m so lucky to be working with some amazing companies, and one of them is Vibratex.

Fun fact: Vibratex made the Rabbit that was featured in the iconic Sex and the City episode, in which Miranda (not Samantha) introduces the ladies to their new dual-action friend. I actually hate rabbits, and that’s neither here nor there. What we’re talking about today is not a rabbit, but the Mystic Wand.

If you’re familiar with the Hitachi Magic Wand, the Mystic Wand shape is already familiar to you. It has a 6″ long handle that’s easy to grip and comes in either pink or black. Where the Mystic Wand really sets itself apart from the Hitachi is its materials. The head of the Mystic Wand is made out of silicone, and has a lovely smooth texture. Usually, I prefer rechargeable toys, because I just don’t have my shit together enough to keep batteries on hand. However, I love that the Mystic Wand takes 4 AA batteries – usually, to find power like the kind it provides, you have to use plug-in toys. Plus, you get 3 speeds and 3 vibration patterns, instead of the Hitachi’s 2 speeds.

Right off the bat, I was amazed by the power. Speed 1 is rumbly, you can actually feel the head of the vibrator shake. Speeds 2 and 3 are noticeably stronger, and actually proved to be too much for me. I’m not big on vibration patterns, but the Mystic Wand comes with 3. Not too shabby at all.

Now, unfortunately, I’ve discovered that I absolutely need pinpoint clitoral vibration. The strength of the Mystic Wand cannot be beat by any of my smaller vibes, but the shape just doesn’t work for my body. I actually find that the strength of the vibrations when they’re spread out across the vulva to be a little distracting. I tried several different hand grips trying to make pinpoint contact with my clit to no avail.

However, I still would recommend this toy if you fit any of these descriptions: If you like to be able to feel vibrations in your labia. If you need a toy that packs one hell of a punch. If you’re a Hitachi devotee and you want something smaller, easier to travel with, or less restrictive. If you have used/currently use massager-style, non-pinpoint vibrators with orgasmic success.

If the Mystic Wand sounds like it might fit your bill, you can purchase one from SheVibe for $49.99.

Thanks so much, Vibratex!

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Vixen Creations VixSkin Mustang

March 22, 2013 · By · 1 Comment

Earlier this year, Vixen Creations was kind enough to send me the VixSkin dildo of my choice. Since I’m quite the opposite of a size queen, but wanted something I wouldn’t grow out of, I went with the special Tie Bright edition of their best selling Mustang.

The Mustang measures 6 1/2″ long, and is 1 5/8″ in diameter at its widest point. It’s a realistic dildo, and because of the VixSkin material, might be the most realistic one on the market. It has subtle veins, a lovely pronounced head, and what looks like a foreskin ridge about 1/2″ under the head. I love that the toy is textured realistically, but it’s done with such attention to detail. If they used a penis model, I have to find that man and shake his hand.

VixSkin is very special because it’s actually dual-density silicone. The inner core of the dildo is firm, while the outer core is soft and plushy. The vast majority of dildos that I’ve come across are rather stiff and unyielding, which can be awesome for G-spotting but makes toys of a certain size potentially difficult to take. The outer layer of plushy silicone has a lot of grab to it, so I definitely recommend using a good water-based lube. I did flame test the silicone, and it passed with flying colors, meaning this toy is 100% non-porous and body safe.

As for use, I really love using the Mustang when I’m also using a clitoral vibe. Being able to clench around it really helps prolong my orgasm. The squish of the outer silicone makes it easy to insert, and the pronounced head gives me a little bit of G-spot stimulation. It’s not a toy that I can use by itself to bring me to orgasm, but it absolutely makes a difference when I use it in combination with a good clitoral vibe.

My partner and I don’t usually use the Mustang together, on me or on him (he’s not really into the bend over boyfriend phenomenon…). For couples who like to use strap on harnesses, the Mustang would be an awesome choice, as it does come with a nice sturdy base.

If you’re looking for something realistic, body safe, and beautifully crafted, seriously consider something from the VixSkin line! You can purchase their products either from their Website or from SheVibe.

Thanks, Vixen Creations!

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My First Time at Planned Parenthood

March 20, 2013 · By · 3 Comments

As you might have astutely guessed from the title, today was my first time at Planned Parenthood. I’ve always gotten my birth control from a family doctor, and I’ve never before had a pregnancy scare, so there wasn’t much reason for me to go. (I’m also lucky in that my university provided free STI screenings. Go Pitt!)

But today, I went with a friend. Which actually turned into us eating breakfast in the Planned Parenthood lobby, then taking pee tests together. Pretty sure it’s important for me to now say that ain’t nothing growing in my uterus.

The women working there were all so sweet and so patient. My friend and I were both nervous and kept fumbling around with our clipboards. It’s not that I was embarrassed to be there or nervous about being seen – I was just nervous about getting the results of my test. After we both got our desired results, a woman sat and talked with us about our concerns (like um, where my period is hiding?), and then we were free to stroll pasts the Lifers and their signs on our way out.

Honestly, it was one of the simplest and easiest health care experiences I’ve had. It’s well organized, very secure, and staffed with compassionate people. If for some reason you’ve been putting off any kind of reproductive health care, GO. It’s at least 10x easier and less intimidating than you think.

Regarding the protestors, you actually have a right to a clear pathway to the door of the clinic. If they won’t back off, you can call the cops if that’s something you feel comfortable doing. I know not everyone can trust their police force, but the option is available. The ones outside today were pretty mild, signs about praying to end abortion. (How about EDUCATE to end abortion? No? Then we’re back to square one.)

If you’re new to my blog, know that I like to post about things that normally people don’t talk about in public. I figure if I talk about it openly, maybe people who need to talk will speak up, whether it’s privately to me or publicly within their communities.

Do you have any experiences with Planned Parenthood?

PS: If you’re in the Pittsburgh area and need a compassionate and confidential ride to Planned Parenthood, or just someone to listen, email me.

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Sliquid: The Lube to End All Lubes

February 25, 2013 · By · Leave a Comment

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You’ve probably seen me mention Sliquid before, or at least I hope you have.  They’re hands down my favorite lubricant company, and in my opinion, make the best and safest lubes on the market.

If you’ve never tried a lubricant before, I really encourage it.  It’s not for people with a “problem”.  Your partner isn’t doing anything wrong if you need a lubricant (and neither are you!).  If you’re taking hormonal birth control, antihistamines, or antidepressants, you might notice a decrease in natural lubrication.  You can use lube to last longer (no chafing!), have shower sex (silicone!), or add flavor to oral.

Sliquid has two lines, Natural and Organic.  Both are glycerin- and paraben-free, which makes them suitable for even the most sensitive bits.  Both are completely vegan.  The big difference is that the Organic line uses – duh – organic ingredients.  It’s entirely up to you which you try.  My body gets along perfectly with the Naturals line, and I don’t make too great an effort to shop for organic food.

My absolute favorite lube of theirs is Sassy.  I’ve written about it before, both as an anal and a vaginal lubricant.  It’s a thick gel that doesn’t get gloopy, dry up too fast, or smell funny.  The thickness provides a really nice cushion for anal play and makes it longer lasting for anything vaginal.  Essentially, it’s the ultimate in basic, water-based lubedom.

Sliquid was awesome and sent me some lovely sample packets a few weeks ago.  I’m happy to report that their Cherry Vanilla Swirl is tasty, subtle, and great for oral.  If you’re a vagina-having-individual and you’ve ever tried another flavored lube only to be left with a yeast infection, this is a lubricant worth trying.  Made without the usual suspects, this could be your vagina’s best friend.

If you want to try a new Sliquid lube but you’re not sure what to get, I always recommend picking something multi-purpose.  Silicone isn’t safe for toys, but if you want something great for water play and long-lasting sex, it’s the way to go.  Water-based lubricants like Sassy (gel), H2O (liquid), and Sea (made with seaweed extracts) are great choices.  I swear by Sassy, but friends of mine go crazy for Sea.  You really can’t go wrong.  Don’t believe me?  Check out what Epiphora has to say.

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Thanks, Sliquid!

This post was not sponsored by Sliquid.  All opinions are my own.  I am an affiliate and do receive affiliate compensation on sales made through my link, but I was not paid for this individual post.

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