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Preparing for Eroticon, plus a Pre-Con Meet & Greet!

By On February 27, 2017

Thanks to SheVibe, on March 2nd I’ll be arriving in London for Eroticon 2017! The convention takes place March 4th-5th and features speakers like my dear friend and Eroticon roommate Sarah from Formidable Femme, Girl on the Net, Ruby Goodnight, Myles Jackman, and Emmeline Peaches, among many others. Hold up… What’s Eroticon? In their own words, the Eroticon organizers describe…

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Depression, always.

By On January 9, 2017

My first great realization of 2017 is that I have depression. Wait, you say, didn’t we know that already? I have depression… and I always will. It’s that simple. And yet, it’s that complicated. I have depression and I always will. That sentence itself sounds depressing, no? You may want to tell me something like, Don’t give up! You can feel…

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My Secret Weapon Against Stress and Anxiety

By On November 1, 2016

Update: The brilliant Kate Sloan covered this very topic for Glamour Magazine, and guess who’s quoted…!  My secret weapon in the fight against stress and anxiety is… erotica? Why It Works For me, as for many people, one of the tell-tale signs of anxiety is a racing heart. I can rocket from 65 beats per minute all the way up…

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Showing Up and Being Seen

By On September 23, 2016

Hi everybody. Let’s take a deep, cathartic breath. For about a year, I’ve been wrestling with some big things. A year ago, I made some huge changes to my life. Not just that – I became a quitter. I quit my job and I quit a medication that wasn’t working for me. What happened next was amazing: I got into therapy and…