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Lube, Arousal Nonconcordance, and You

By On August 26, 2016

If you and I are friends, there’s a very good chance that at some point I have either given you lube or recommended lube to you. If we’re really good friends, you’ve probably received a bottle of Sliquid. Here’s why: Lube makes everything better. Pictured: Kindle screen showing the cover of Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski & bottles of Sliquid (Silk, Sassy,…

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LELO HEX: You’re Not #Winning Us Over

By On June 14, 2016

With the release of their new and supposedly revolutionary condom LELO HEX, the company has once again proven that if you’re a rich dude, people will overlook the fact that you’re an abuser in order to work with you. Who’s the face of their new LELO HEX condoms? None other than Charlie Sheen. Charlie Sheen: Could We Maybe Not? If you only…

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Pretty Little Liars’ Not So Pretty Twist

By On August 12, 2015

This post contains spoilers for the mid-season 6 finale of Pretty Little Liars, in which viewers were promised the “Big A Reveal”. Last night, Pretty Little Liars fans were finally rewarded for their patience: We now know exactly who A is and we sort of know A’s motives. Unfortunately, too many of those motives rest on the “twist” that A is…

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Interview: Crista Anne’s Orgasm Quest

By On January 22, 2015

My good friend Crista Anne has recently catapulted into the spotlight for her awesome Orgasm Quest. As defined by Crista herself, Orgasm Quest is about self love and beating depression-related anorgasmia. Because I send her pictures of my boobs she’s such a dear, Crista has agreed to answer some questions here for my readers! 1. How does it feel to have basically…

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By On May 16, 2013

Last week, I posted a link to, along with a simple explanation of what they do. Today, I want to get deeper into that, since I’m proud to be part of the Blog Carnival! So what is Dildology? In their own words… “The sex toy industry is on the rise, yet it remains largely unregulated. intends to…