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The Opposite of FOMO Isn’t Being There — It’s Cultivating Abundance

By On August 9, 2017

Author’s note: FOMO is an acronym for fear of missing out, and was coined in 2004 by Patrick J. McGinnis.   If you follow me on Twitter, you probably know that my plans to attend the 2017 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit (#sfs17) were derailed as a result of visa-related bureaucracy. I’d been planning for the trip all year. I’d even secured sponsorship…

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Quickie: The Vibrator I Recommend to Almost Everyone

By On July 30, 2017

One question seems to follow me everywhere I go: What vibrator should I buy?? The primary challenge here is that not every body is the same. People – and genitals – have different preferences, different needs, different experiences. But when I’m talking to someone who has never had a sex toy before, they often can’t tell me much about what they…

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Womanizer vs Satisfyer: Clash of the Clit Suckers

By On July 25, 2017

It’s taken me quite a while to gather my thoughts on this whole “suction”-based toy trend. In reality, I’m fairly certain that these things work by using puffs of air and a vibrating motor, but since I understand absolutely nothing about engineering, I couldn’t tell you for sure. But I can give you my opinion, since that’s ostensibly what you came…

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3 Things Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Swingers

By On July 2, 2017

With non-monogamy of all kinds becoming less taboo, from swinging to polyamory to open relationships, there’s a lot to learn out there from some really amazing sources — like my friends at Swingtowns! Even if you’re not interested in going down that road right now, there’s a lot that monogamous folks can learn from teachings around open relationships. Communication Just…

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Sheetfaced: A Sheet Mask Round-Up

By On June 24, 2017

In case you missed it, I recently wrote about my skincare routine and briefly mentioned sheet masks without going into too much detail. Today, I’m doing a quick round-up of the sheet masks I’ve used most recently, and I’ll also explain why I use sheet masks in my routine at all. Top row (L-R): SNP Gold Collagen Ampoule Mask, Benton Snail…