At long last, I’m here to talk about G-spot Vibrators! (If you missed parts 1 or 2, you can check them out here and here, respectively. We talked about vibrator material basics and clitoral vibrators.)
The G-spot is less widely understood than the clitoris, so let’s start with a little basic information. Lady friend, meet your G-spot. Usually, the G-spot is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on your belly-button side. It’s a patch of nerve endings that, when stimulated, produce what’s often described as a different kind of orgasm. FYI: At first, it will probably feel like you have to pee. You don’t. You’re on the right track.
So how can you stimulate your G-spot? Some women like dildos for the simple fact that they can be easier to control, and not every woman feels like she needs vibration on that area. I like firmer vibrators because if you don’t feel like you want or need the vibration some days, you can use them like you would a dildo. It’s really up to you. At some point, I will do a post on dildos – don’t worry!
That having been said, you really do have a range of options when it comes to G-spot vibrators:
1) Size. Do you want something big or small? What do YOU consider big or small? Think about girth as well as length.
2) Material. Do you want something firm or something more jelly-like (thermoplastic rubber, phthalate-free, is great)?
3) Strength of vibration, patterns, bells & whistles. Do you need something with one setting, 3, or 5 plus patterns? Do you like patterns, or do you find they just get in the way? Do you need to be able to have your fun without your roommates knowing what you’re up to?
Don’t worry – I’ve already considered these for you!
If you’re looking for something small and jelly-like, the Pleasurizer ($22) vibe from Babeland. As a former associate with a toy selling company that ran in-home parties, I’m actually very familiar with this toy personally and can confidently tell you that it’s a great first time vibe! The nubbies at the base are meant for clitoral stimulation, but as not every woman is built the same, I’m more comfortable recommending this as a G-spot vibe than a dual-action. The bulbous head is perfect for hitting your G-spot, though, and the jelly texture and small size won’t feel overwhelming. Plus, it’s not a loud toy – this is definitely one I would feel safe recommending for those in an apartment situation.
Women with a little bit more toy experience, or those who prefer a more realistic feel, might like the Boss Naked ($67). It’s actually Babeland’s own unique toy, and while it is closer to realistic than most G-spot toys I’ve seen, it’s definitely on the tasteful end of realism! Better yet, the reviews claim rumbly vibrations and a reasonable level of quiet for a stronger toy. Because it’s a silicone toy, it’s harder than the Pleasurizer above, but still has enough give to it to be comfortable inside of the vagina. Because Boss Naked is a firmer toy, I would even go so far as to say that you could comfortably use it as a clitoral vibrator if you found the vibrations in the tip strong enough.
If you were curious about Mimi from the last WTB? installment, you should definitely check out her big sister Uma ($109). I was actually seriously tempted by Uma last time I made a toy investment, and I’m still dying to add her to my collection. As another silicone toy, Uma is firmer than the Pleasurizer, and judging by Mimi’s texture, it may actually be firmer than Boss Naked is described to be. While firm, Uma is not strictly made for girls with girth requirements – at 1.5″ at the widest point across, this is not an intimidating toy. I have heard that Uma is not the quietest toy on the market, but with a motor similar to Mimi’s, I can assure you that behind closed doors and walls that are at least not plywood-thin, you should be fine and discreet. Like Mimi, Uma has five speeds and five pulsation patterns, which means plenty of variety and many options for you to discover exactly what works for you.
As with all toys, I definitely recommend a water-based lubricant. There are so many on the market that it shouldn’t be hard for you to find one you like – you can even start with basic KY water-based liquid from the drug store if you don’t want to order online. Just make sure not to use any silicone lubricants on your toys!
Once you’ve narrowed down your choices and have an idea of the kind of toy you want, consider where you make your purchase. I’ve linked to Babeland during each installment of this series so far because all of their toys are body safe and they have excellent sex education articles. I feel that Babeland is committed to safe and smart sexuality, so I endorse them. I’m an affiliate, which means that if you buy through the links I provide, I get a commission. I’m not here to sell you things, though – I would never recommend something I wouldn’t personally consider, or that I wouldn’t recommend to a close friend. I believe in making your life better through safely exploring your sexuality, and I think Babeland is a legitimately good source for intimate products. Browse Babeland’s selection of G-spot vibrators or, if you prefer, head to your local retailer to check them out yourself. Consider size, material, and vibration strength when making your choice.
Soon, you can expect to see the final installment of What’s the Buzz? – dual-action vibrators! Including the famous Rabbit.
Do any of you have favorite G-spot toys that you recommend? Did you find any of my toy recommendations helpful? I would love to hear from you!
Safe & sexy,