Black Friday & Cyber Monday SALES!

Don't bother putting on pants: I've gathered up this year's best Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals from my favorite online retailers, so you can spend less time out in the cold and more time napping off all that pie. This post will be updated as often as possible to reflect current sales, so don't forget to check back if nothing catches your eye the first time! I've gathered some of my favorite toys - both 2016 releases and old favorites - and found the best deals for you across the web! Here's the best of the best, in my humble ...

The We-Vibe Sync

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There's a reason We-Vibe is one of my absolute favorite companies: They listen to their customers and they actually innovate. The brand new We-Vibe Sync is evidence of their commitment to those ideals. I wasn't a fan of the past iterations of the We-Vibe flagship "couples vibrator". The We-Vibe 2 was weak and cumbersome, and the We-Vibe 3 was more of the same. Sure, it was a cool idea - a hands-free device that you could wear during penetrative sex that wasn't a cock ring. Alas, it was lacking in execution. When We-Vibe rolled out the We-Vibe 4, then 4 Plus, we ...

My Secret Weapon Against Stress and Anxiety

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(A portrait of the blogger on her e-reader, probably staving off anxiety.) My secret weapon in the fight against stress and anxiety is... erotica? Why It Works For me, as for many people, one of the tell-tale signs of anxiety is a racing heart. I can rocket from 65 beats per minute all the way up to 115, just from anxiety. Once my heart rate is up, I'm hyper-aware of my body, which makes it all the harder to calm down. But, if I can just get my heart rate back to normal, I can usually pull myself out of that anxiety spiral. Now, ...

Tantus Gary and Uncut #2: The Squish of Dreams

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One might think that because I've been writing about sex toys for over four years now, I would have some kind of ultra-elaborate routine - a set-up fit for a queen. In a way, I do: I have something like 75 toys to choose from at any given time. I have a few shelves - and more than a few boxes - dedicated to displaying and storing all of my sex toys. I have a lube for every occasion. But when you get down to it, I'm a very lazy masturbator at heart. Pictured: Tantus Uncut #2 Cream colored Dual Density ...

Finding Pleasure in Unexpected Places

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Just after I arrived home from Woodhull #SFS16, I sped through Emily Nagoski's brilliant book Come As You Are. For me, one of the most valuable takeaways was the concept of a sexual accelerator and sexual brakes. As a rather - ahem - intense person, I was not surprised to learn that I have both a sensitive accelerator and sensitive brakes. I'm turned on by a range of things, but I also find that I turn off easily. Nagoski emphasizes that every configuration is normal, and there's really nothing that can be done to change the basic structures. However, you can pay attention ...